Step One: Stop arguing.
Friday, October 28, 2011
GET HER BACK STEP ONE:
Stop all the whining and crying, fighting and arguing. What will win her back is a simple 5 step approach. Each Day I will answer questions and give you free advice on how to win back your wife from the brink of divorce.
Step One: Stop arguing.
Let her win. How can someone fight with you if you are agreeing. This doesn't mean be a weak person. It just means, to listen to her complaints and say something like, "I see" or "OK", then let her finish.
Step One: Stop arguing.
Step Two: STOP Crying and Whining. Do you really think she wants a weak man? If this works it will only be temporary and will not fix the situation.
I mean look at this guy. Do you think girls really want him around.
Would you want this guy with you while you were hanging out with friends?
Women are not interested in men who are weak. They are not fooled by your tears and pleas for reconsiliation. She obviously didn't want to hurt you, but HER FEELINGS are the ones that she is concerned with. She is being selfish and only thinking about HER. So don't play the pity party because breaking it off didn't happen over night -even if you think it did. It is something that has been in her mind for a while. And since she didn't want to hurt you in the first place she has probably put it off for a while and needed some spark to give her the strength to tell you that the relationship is over.
So by crying you are only making things worse in the long runs. Do your whining and crying alone or with strangers.
When you stop showing these outburst of emotion, and show some strength and resilience she will be shocked. Since she is expecting you to be hurt. Doing the opposite will give her second thoughts for sure. REMEMBER: She left you because she wants a change. By not doing what she expects you are showing that change without saying,"baby, I can change". Which gets us to Step Three.....see more in the next few days. Or subscribe and email me and I will get back to you ASAP...............
Thanks for reading..................take care................and God Bless!!!!
I mean look at this guy. Do you think girls really want him around.
Would you want this guy with you while you were hanging out with friends?
Women are not interested in men who are weak. They are not fooled by your tears and pleas for reconsiliation. She obviously didn't want to hurt you, but HER FEELINGS are the ones that she is concerned with. She is being selfish and only thinking about HER. So don't play the pity party because breaking it off didn't happen over night -even if you think it did. It is something that has been in her mind for a while. And since she didn't want to hurt you in the first place she has probably put it off for a while and needed some spark to give her the strength to tell you that the relationship is over.
So by crying you are only making things worse in the long runs. Do your whining and crying alone or with strangers.
When you stop showing these outburst of emotion, and show some strength and resilience she will be shocked. Since she is expecting you to be hurt. Doing the opposite will give her second thoughts for sure. REMEMBER: She left you because she wants a change. By not doing what she expects you are showing that change without saying,"baby, I can change". Which gets us to Step Three.....see more in the next few days. Or subscribe and email me and I will get back to you ASAP...............
Thanks for reading..................take care................and God Bless!!!!
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